perspective vs perception

does perspective influence perception or
perception interfere with persective
if we can't change someones perception on one thing
at least we can influence them into thinking of their opinion
as just that a perception or is it a perspective
we all come from different places walk in different shoes and
feel, see, hear things at different times
if we all see the same things yet describe them feel them
interpret them differently
that doesn't change what we saw its how we perceive things
is what makes us inherently different
human the reverse being true
if we see the same things and describe, feel, interpret them
roughly the same we have a similar perception with a different perspective
we are friends a different perspective can cause a different perception
just as a different perception leads to a different perspective
how to effect positive change by influencing both:
perception and perspective is the question
we seek what we want to know we sometimes find
what we already know we plan so
we can have have not want not so plan around having nothing and find it all what inspires you?

visualization.

::The Billion-Dollar Motivation Secret::

Imagine sitting on a tropical island,
a cool breeze blowing against your face.
In the distance you can hear the soothing sound of
crystal clear waves rolling gently onto the shore.

Peaceful feeling, don't you think?

Imagine running full speed off the edge of a cliff,
heart pounding in your chest, with a hang-glider attached to catch your fall.
You sore through the air, seeing the worldfrom a bird's eye view.
You're on top of the world!

Pretty exciting, isn't it?

Imagine going through your entire day without a hint of stress,
tension or worry. Everything goes your way and noone can get to you.
Think about how life would be if every day went this way.
Every day was free from worry andstress.

Such a relaxing and happy picture.

Something special happens within each of us
when we closeour eyes and imagine.
We transport ourselves to bettertimes, and forget,
if only for a moment, the struggles ofreality.
We can even feel it in our bodies - the energy and
excitement builds with the images of an inspiring future.

This is the magic of visualization.

Don't Quit.............

When things go wrong
As they sometimes will
When the road u r trudging seems all uphill
when the funds r low and debts r high
And u want to smile but u hav to sigh
When care is pressing u down a bit----
Rest if u must, but don't u quit.


Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As everyone of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns abt
when he might hav won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up through the pace seems slow---
U may succeed with another blow.


Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And u never can tell how close u are,
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest to hit
It's when things seem worst that u mustn't quit.

In Search of Peace

In Search of Peace

From dazzling civilized crowd,
where culture was in short supply,
I moved awayto the distant land for peace.
Under the shadow of protective mountain
I tried to ferry across the mighty river
but my boat capsized and drowned me with my desires.
It resurfaced on the other side, centuries later,
with new weaknesses. In the midst of sandy desert
I surged ahead,burned my feet and scalded my skin;
face pinned to the ground in disgrace.
A camel limped, and terror laughed.
Buried under the heaps of sand, your voice reassured my crying soul
and led me to a new panorama - a cool and moonlit night where innocent laughter of tiny stars awoke me to a new dawn.
Here sun was bright, but cool,human frame weak,
but divine,and here I could worship you
without 'I, me, and mine'.
In the dazzling crowd of civilization,
culture was trying to sprout, andI was no more compelled to wander
to distant lands in search of peace.

The beneficiary

He is not visible,
like stars in daytime,
and I am tired of issuing explanations.
The boredom makes me doze off,
andI did not see stars play in the night sky.
I've heard the moon waxes and wanes like a joker in the circus.
We all laugh,we are the worshippers of the sun; andthe ocean takes full advantage of the lapse.

Pardonable folly

That night the stars descended low,
unusually low; at least appeared so.
Searching for the moonthey dared a detour,
a few merged with Radha's tears,
other mixed with Gopis' laughter.
The moon refused to ascend high,
listlessly held by the pull of Raas Lila.
The stars came low,lower than they aught to have;
the romance,the ambiance of Vrindavan,optimum for a slip!

Fear Complexity

Those foot prints in the forest
retreat our friend in the sky
could not have left.
Then how do we explain
the new imprints,
these distinct impressions?
Who might be the third?
She is fear, born to two;
a compulsion for having recognized each other as
different - I and you.
Fear multiplies as this universe;
reaches far off frontiers
where stars and nebulae gravitateon themselves to save the face.
Fear hides in forest hut,
with us,follows us in darkness of night,
or when clouds cover the sun;
we fail to recognize her rolein our bid to rectify the lapse.
Fear is always the third,
if there are two:

Hope.............

HOPE

I hope that I will always be for each person
what he or she needs me to be.
I hope that each person's death will diminish me,
but that fear of my own will never diminish my joy of life.
I hope that my love for those whom I like will never lessen
my love for those whom I do not.
I hope that another person's love for me will never
be a measure of my love for him or her.
I hope that everybody will accept me as I am,
but that I never will.I hope that I will always ask for forgiveness from others,
but will never need to be asked for my own . . .
I hope that I will always recognize my limitations,
but that I will construct none.
I hope that loving will always be my goal,
but that love will never be my idol.
I hope that everyone will always have hope.
-Henri Nouwen

LIFE

Life itself can't give you joy
Unless you really will it;
Life just gives you time and space
It's up to you to fill it.

Tsunamiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Question...............

Questions!!!

Be patient to all that is unsolved in your heart,
and try to love the questions themselves.
Do not now seek the answers,which cannot be given to you...
because you would not be able to live them,
And the point is to live everthing. Live the questions now,
Perhaps you then gradually without noticing it,
live along some distant day into the answers.....!

Life................

Life means missing expected things
and facing unexpected things.
When you are right, no one remembers,
but when you are wrong, no one forgets…

Thus Do Every Work Carefully.

:)))))))))))))))))))))))))

A smile makes us look younger...
while friends make us feel stronger
... and they make us enjoy life.

One tree can start a forest,
one smile can start a friendship.
One touch can show you care,
one friend can make life worth living for.

Most Valuable Thing :::::::::::Availability

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his5-year-old son waiting for him at the door...
Son: "Daddy, may I ask you a question"
Daddy: "Yeah sure, what it is?"
Son: "Dad, how much do you make an hour"
Daddy: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" thatman said angrily
Son: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
Daddy: "I make Rs. 500 an hour"
"Oh", the little boy replied, with his head down. Looking up, he said,
"Dad, may I please borrow Rs. 300?"
The father was furious, "if the only reason you asked that is so you canborrow some money to buy a silly toy or other nonsense,then march yourself to your room and go to bed. Think why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childishbehavior"
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man satdown and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started tothink:"May be there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs. 300 and he really didn't ask for money very often!" The man went to the door of little boy's room and opened the door."Are you asleep, son?" He asked."No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.
"I've been thinking, may be I was too hard on you earlier", said the man,"It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's theRs.300 you asked for" The little boy sat straight up, smiling "oh thank you dad!" He yelled.
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled some crippled up notes.The man,seeing that the boy already had money, started toget angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father. "Why do you want money if you already had some?" the father grumbled.
"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied."Daddy I have Rs. 500 now. Can I buy an hour of your time ? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you"
MORALIt's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life.
We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent sometime with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.
If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easilyreplace us in a matter of days. But the family & friendswe leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And cometo think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to ourfamily. An unwise investment indeed!
You know what's the full word of FAMILY?
FAMILY=(F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU.

Stress management

A professor stood before his Philosophy class and had some items infrontof him.When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and emptymayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.He then asked the students if the jar was full.They agreed that it was.The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into thejar.He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areasbetweenthe golf balls.He then asked the students again if the jar was full.They agreed it was.The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.Of course, the sand filled up everything else.He asked once more if the jar was full.The students responded with an unanimous "yes."The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table andpoured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the emptyspace between the sand.The students laughed."Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you torecognize that this jar represents your life."
The golf balls are the important things - your God, family, yourchildren,your health, your friends, and your favorite passions - things that ifeverything else was lost and only they remained, your life would stillbefull."The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, yourhouse,and your car."The sand is everything else--the small stuff."If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is noroomfor the pebbles or the golf balls."The same goes for life."
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you willneverhave room for the things that are important to you.
"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter.Set your priorities.
The rest is just sand."One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffeerepresented.The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked
JJJJJ"It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,there's always room for a cup of coffee with a friend."JJJJ
Please share this with someone you care about.

Don't make fun of religions...............

I was standing at jalandhar station when my attention went towards a Sikhyouth standing near me wearing a Black turban having a long beard andwearing a kirpan over his shirt looking
similar to a terrorist.After a while, one local train arrived, which was totally packed. The Sikhyouth tried to alight the train but failed to do so. Just then a voice washeard from the back coach 'Sardarji Barah Baj gaye' (Sir it's 12 o'clock!).The Sikh youth looked over at that voice maker who was a young Mischievous type of person and instead of showing any anger made a smile towards him.The smile made was so enigmatic that it seemed as if some type of truthlies behind it. Not able to resist my temptation, I walked towards him and asked why did he smile at that person who teased him.* **The Sikh youth replied,'He was not teasing me but was asking for my Help'*. I was surprised withthese words and he told me that there was a big history behind that which one should know. I was eager to know the History and the Sikh youth
narrated:During 17th Century, when Hindustan was ruled by Mughals, all the Hindupeople were humiliated and were treated like animals. Mughals treated theHindu women as there own property and were forcing all Hindus to acceptIslam and even used to kill the people if
they were refusing toaccept.Thattime, our ninth Guru, Sri Guru Teg Bahadarji cameforward,in response to arequest of some Kashmir Pandits to fight against all these cruelactivities.Guruji told the Mughal emperor that if he could succeed in converting himtoIslam, all the Hindus would
accept the same.But, if he failed, he should stop all those activities . The Mughal emperorhappily agreed to that but even after lots of torture to Guruji and hisfellow members he failed to convert him to Islam and Guruji along with hisother four fellow members, were tortured and sacrificed their lives inChandni Chowk. Since the Mughals were unable to convert them to Islam theywere assassinated.Thus Guruji sacrificed his life for the protection of Hindu religion. Cananybody lay down his life and that too for the protection of anotherreligion? This is the reason he is still remembered* **as "Hind KiChaddar"*,shield of India. For the sake of whom he had sacrificed his life, none ofthe them came forward to lift his body, fearing that they would also assassinated Seeing this incident our 10th Guruji, Sri Guru Gobind Singhji (Son of GuruTeg Bahadarji) founder of khalsa made a resolution that he would converthisfollowers to such human beings who would not be able to hide themselves andcould be easily located in thousands. At the start, the Sikhs were very fewin numbers as they were fighting against the Mughal emperors. At that time,Nadir Shah raided Delhi in the year 1739 and looted Hindustan and wascarrying lot of Hindustan treasures and nearly 2200 Hindu women along withhim. The news spread like a fire and was heard by Sardar Jassa Singh whowasthe Commander of the Sikh army at that time. He decided to attack NadirShah's Kafila on the same midnight. He did so and rescued all the Hinduwomen and they were safely sent to their homes.It didn't happen only once but thereafter whenever any Abdaalis or Iranishad attacked and looted Hindustan and were trying to carry the treasuresandHindu women along with them for selling them in Abdal markets, the Sikharmyalthough fewer in numbers but were brave hearted and attacked them atmidnight,12 O'clock and rescued women.After that time when there occurred a similar incidence, people started tocontact the Sikh army for their help and Sikhs used to attack the raider'sat Midnight, 12 O'clock.* **Nowadays, these "smart people" and some Sikhenemies who are afraid of Sikhs, have spread these words that at 12O'clock,the Sikhs **go out of their senses*. This historic fact was the reasonwhichmade me smile over that person as I thought that his Mother or Sister wouldbe in trouble and wants my help and was reminding me by saying off'SardarjiBarah Baj Gaye'Plz do forward this mail to all ur friends so they can know about sikhhistory &* its a humble appeal PLEASE dont make fun of RELIGIONS ! as everyreligion is as pure as urs.* *"Its easy to joke on a Sardar, but It's too difficult to be a Sardar"*

Trust!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that youdon't fall into the river."
The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand.""What's the difference?"
Asked the puzzled father."There's a big difference," replied the little girl."I
f I hold your hand and something happens to me,chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand,I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let myhand go."
In any relationship, the essence of trust isnot in its bind, but in its bond.
"So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold urs..."
This mail is too short..........butcarries a lot of feeling

How To Live A Happy And Rewarding Life

Take time to smell the roses.
Take a nap on Sunday afternoon.
Drink 8 glasses of water a day.
Never deprive someone of hope. It might be all they have.
Be thankful for every meal.
Don't be afraid to say I'm sorry.
Don't take your health for granted.
Improve your performance by improving your attitude.
Listen to your children.
Leave everything a little better than you found it.
Keep it simple.
Keep good company.
Keep your promise.
Be kinder than necessary.
Take good care of those you love.
Make it a habit to do nice things.
Wear outrageous underwear.
Judge your success by the degree that you're
enjoying peace, health and love.
Be a good loser.
Be a good winner.
Be romantic.
Live so that when you your children think of fairness, caring
and integrity, they think of you.

Enjoy real maple syrup.
Never refuse homemade brownies.
Remember other people's birthdays.
Sing in the shower.Don't nag.Don't gossip.
Don't tailgate.Don't expect money to bring you happiness.
Be forgiving of yourself and others.
Never give up on anyone. Miracles happen every day.
Say thank you a lot.Say please a lot.
Take your dog to obedience school. You'll both learn a lot
.Slow dance.Don't rain on other people's parades.
Don't postpone joy.Don’t blame others.
Take responsibility for every area of your life.
Take care of your reputation. It's your most valuable asset.
Count your blessings.Whistle.Marry only for love.
Do more than is expected.Be there when others need you.
Never sell yourself short.Never be ashamed of your patriotism.
Never be ashamed of honest tears.

Reach for your Dreams in 2006!

Reach for your Dreams in 2006!

This life is yours,
Take the power to choose what you want to do-and do it well,
Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly,
Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature,
Take the power to control your own life,
No one else can do it for you,
Nothing is too good for you,
You deserve the best,
Take the power to make your life
Healthy, Exciting, Worthwhile and very Happy

-while you reach for your dreams.

Surrender(Leave It Funda)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Another My Leave It Formula To Live a Happy Life

: Learn to accept ur mistakes.
: Sometimes though u r correct, conditions becomes too critical to control.
Some Tips to Ctl such situation::
There's a saying "Monam Sarvochya lakshram means be Slient its the greatest Quality Of men" . Let anybody do wht he wants and when the situation gets controlled ,then tell him where he was wrong and why.

: Otherwise if the other person is very arrogant,Leave the situation

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Sometimes many situations comes where it becomes very difficult for u to ctl the situation, do one thing SURRENDER IT TO GOD.
but remember u hav surrendered, now don't think abt tht everything will be ok.

Becaz

" while seeing us in trouble our parents become tensed
same like tht
if w'll become sad, Our ALMIGHTY GOD Will also Be SAD
"

Thus always KEEP SMILING

INNER VOICE - The message of the holy Quran

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THE QURAN exhorts man:
Be truthful and stand against yourself for truth,
avoid arrogance and pride, be patient, do justice,
maintain kinship, do not resort to violence,
do not spread disorder, do not steal, do not murder,
do not rape, render help to the poor and needy,
be merciful towards orphans, have consistency,
uphold what is right and forbid what is wrong,
avoid backbiting and slandering, be modest,
be sincere, control anger, practice what you preach,
avoid jealousy, be clean and hygienic,
do not say or do any indecent act, do not boast,
say good words and be patient, be firm, be friendly,
be helpful, spread the message of love, peace,
mutual co-operation, harmony, brotherhood.
If a believer gets what he asks he should thank
Allah and if he does not get what he asks in this life,
his patience will also get him reward from Allah. "
And whatever good they do, nothing will be rejected of them;
for Allah knows well those who are the pious (3:115)

It is the duty of every Muslim to lead unblemished life
on this earth and he should not be a tool to spread hatred,
violence or misunderstanding.
He should be always on the side of truth and justice.
He should respect and care all creations of God.
When in difficulty seek His guidance and help. He alone can help you.
"Indeed your Lord is Allah, Who created the heavens and the earth….
He brings the night as a cover over the day, seeking it rapidly and
(He created) the sun, the moon, the stars subjected to His Command.
Surely, His is the creation and Commandment. Blessed be Allah
the Lord of the mankind, jinn and all that exists. Invoke your Lord
with humility and in secret. He likes not the aggressors.
And do not do mischief on the earth, after it has been set in order,
and invoke Him with fear and hope:

Surely, Allah's Mercy is (ever) near unto the good-doers." (7:54-56).

Good Morning................

If you woke up this morning
with more health than illness,you are more blessed than the million
who won't survive the week. If you have never experienced the danger
of battle,the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture orthe pangs
of starvation,you are ahead of 20 million peoplearound the world.If you attend
a church meetingwithout fear of harassment,arrest, torture, or death,you are more
blessed than almost three billion people in the world.

with more health than illness,you are more blessed than themillion who won't survive the week


If you have never experiencedthe danger of battle,
the loneliness of imprisonment,
the agony of torture orthe pangs of starvation,
you are ahead of 20 million peoplearound the world.

If you attend a church meeting ithout fear of harassment,
arrest, torture, or death,you are more blessed than almost
three billion people in the world.

If you have food in your refrigerator,clothes on your back,
a roof overyour head and a place to sleep,you are richer
than 75% of this world

If you have money in the bank,in your wallet,
and spare changein a dish someplace, you are among
the top 8% of the world's wealthy.

If your parents are still married and alive,
you are very rare,especially in the United States.


If you hold up your head with a smileon your face
and are truly thankful,you are blessed because the
majority can, but most do not.

If you can hold someone's hand, hug them
or even touch them on the shoulder,
you are blessed because you canoffer God's healing touch.

You are so blessed in ways
you may never even know.

Art Of Living.........

When I was In my final year graduation.I heard abt Art Of Living .Thus I Made planned to join tht.
Some things which i liked most, I want to share with all.
Some Key Points to Live happy ::
1 : Generally in everybody's life some events come, by which one becomes very depressed , sometimes because of one whom u love a lot,or by one whom u don't like.
But Listen here we hav to type of persons:
One whom w like (love) the most
one whom w don't like
now again w hav two ways
For the first one : Remember if u luv somebody, u'll hav to accept tht person completely,
Ignore his/her mistakes and then try to change tht person if he/she is
wrong.Remember if u accept anybody, u accept his/her evils,good habits
everything. His/her mistakes are now of urs. Thus while seeing ur loving
doing something wrong, don't scold him/her but rather than this try to change his behavior as if it is urs.And Then see how life changes.

For the second one : Same thing but first Accept tht person completely.And then try to change him/her.

Now Do One Thing
Every Month Accept one whom u don't like a bit even.
Then See How the Life Changes.
U'll Be having all ur friends around u
Everybody 'll be caring.
And ur life will be changed completely.